Okay, so there are worse things in life, but geeze...I created the name on GEnie years ago for a character who was part of an interactive story called "Heaven's Republic," run by a friend of mine over there. Seth Graves in HR was a happily married physician, nothing like my SP Hogwarts character..
Can you imagine your name being immortalized as someone's RPG character? I really had no idea that there was anyone with this name; I'd thought it was unusual enough to be unlikely.
Now, Paul Graves--I knew there were probably a few of them in the world. But Seth...that's a bit of a surprise.